Embracing Your Growth: The Importance of Expanding Your Space
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Chapter 1: The Unseen Accumulation
When relocating, you may realize that your possessions are more numerous than expected. This phenomenon occurs because we often expand our environment without being conscious of it.
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By Niklas Göke
One critical lesson I learned from moving is that we tend to accumulate more belongings than we initially perceive. During my five years in a compact 24-square-meter apartment, I never sensed a significant change in my environment. However, the sheer volume of items I moved today could have easily filled a van. Each day felt routine, but over time, even the smallest additions added up.
What seems insignificant in the moment—like an extra shoebox or a suitcase—can become quite burdensome when it comes time to relocate. This realization often prompts questions like, "How did I acquire so much?" or "Could I have managed with less?" While needing more space can be inconvenient and pricey, our inclination to expand into our surroundings is not inherently negative.
Acquiring items signifies a sense of comfort and growth within your space. Over five years, both you and your living environment evolve. Just as you can't remain the same person, your surroundings must change as well.
Moreover, we also extend ourselves into various roles throughout our lives. On your first day at a new job, you may feel lost, but as time passes, you begin personalizing your tasks. This incremental change is true for all new experiences—friendships, parenthood, and creative pursuits. Your foundational traits may be set, but it's up to you to fill in the details as you progress, often with ease.
Reflecting on what each possession represents can be enlightening when you move. Did that item symbolize your growth as a parent or your commitment to a healthier lifestyle? Embrace the process of stretching, and even if you need to part with some belongings, you’ll do so with appreciation rather than frustration.
Some might scoff at the personal touches you add to your workspace, like photographs, but these simple items carry profound significance. They remind you that you have the right to occupy your space fully and that your potential extends beyond what you currently envision.
The next time you find yourself in a transition, remember: you can create the life you desire.
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