Jesus’ Perspective on Mortality

Jesus encouraged his followers to face death with hope and positivity, demonstrating this attitude as he approached his own crucifixion. His disciples absorbed this lesson, as shown in the words of the Apostle Paul:

“For me, living means Christ, and dying is gain.” (Phil. 1:21, NIV)

“I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, nor the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Rom. 8:38–39, NIV)

“Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting? The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Cor. 15:55–57, NIV)

Jesus and his followers recognized that death is a natural aspect of life and should not invoke fear.

Five Key Takeaways from Five Funerals

Having attended five funerals in such a short timeframe allowed me to hear numerous eulogies, providing ample opportunity for reflection. Here are five significant lessons I gleaned from this experience.

1. The Importance of Being Present

At funerals, loved ones often share heartfelt stories. These shared memories serve as healing reminders of cherished moments. It’s the everyday experiences, not just grand adventures, that form the most meaningful stories.

2. Act Without Delay

If you’ve been contemplating that vacation or visit to a relative, now is the time to act. Tomorrow is never promised. Regrets often stem from missed opportunities to connect with loved ones, with many wishing they had more time.

3. Shine Your Light and Encourage Others

Embrace your individuality. The qualities that make you unique are what people remember. You may not realize the impact you have on others simply by being yourself and inspiring them to do the same.

4. The Value of Generosity

After officiating over 300 funerals, it’s evident that material possessions don't accompany us in death. As Job observed, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart.” (Job 1:21, NIV). What truly endures beyond our lives is what we give away. People tend to remember not how much you earned, but how much you shared.

5. Cultivate Gratitude

Cherish your loved ones. Express your love regularly and appreciate the life you’ve been given. Every moment is a gift, and gratitude for our existence enriches our lives.

In summary, these five funerals have imparted valuable lessons. Perhaps you can reflect on your own experiences and add to this list.